Some or most of you may have noticed this when you traveled abroad. Most people won’t find you attractive, or you don’t feel that lucky with relationships.
But once you are in a different country depending on where you are you will notice that people will give that second look or oh you are cute look which you probably don’t get back home.
There are some reasons for this question and l listed them below;
1- The country you live in doesn’t matter, but The people around you do!
Every one of us is attracted to certain types of looks. Beautiful is beautiful everywhere, unfortunately, does not count in every part of the country. Most of the time yes, if you are very good looking then wherever you go people will be attracted to you or find you good looking.
But sometimes, when some people think you are handsome or beautiful, some other kinds of people perhaps from a different region or culture won’t find you that pretty.
For instance, some British people won’t probably fall in love with a good-looking Mediterranean girl or guy. Vice Versa.
But a person who is from that region or close to by looks and cultural wise may fall in love with that person.
So my advice is if you are unhappy wherever you are, go travel and find the right place for you. Trust me. It will be worth it!
Above suggestion is more accurate if one lives in a multicultural country where most people are from different background. However, if you are in a state where most people look alike, you should consider the exotic factor.
People are accustomed to seeing the same type of people in their own country. They are used to them, and psychologically that’s what they see while growing.
When you have relationships with people who kinda look same, you may be curious about other types of look in another countries or regions. They may not even notice the worth of other person or how lucky they are.
When this person travels, he or she will be interested in different types of looks. It will excite them. Same as when a person sees a different kind of person visiting their own country. They may be interested in your look and wanted to get to know you.
Let’s not forget that also some countries have less attractive people, and some regions have very healthy and good looking people. When you travel and go back and forth, you will notice this difference.
If you think you are pretty in North America, but if you go to a country in South America or Eastern Europe, you will be disappointed at times.
2- You are visiting or moved to a country where people are less attractive
On average if a country you travel to have mostly unattractive and unhealthy looking people, you will have the advantage of attracting the opposing sex as their options are limited.
I won’t give you an example because any country I mention which will be the one I probably wouldn’t be attracted to of its people. Let’s not forget the locals always will find their people attractive most of the time. My point is everyone is different, and everyone has a particular type of look they would like.
3- You probably are more outside when traveling
The person will be outside most of the time when he/she visits a new destination as there are many attractions to see. So, as a result, you will be seeing more and exposed to most people outside. The chances few more people will be noticing you.
4- You look entirely different.
Let’s give you an example. If you are Russian Girl and live in Russia and not that attractive, you may have some problems and frustrations with your love life. Why? Because not only there are many beautiful Russian girls, but also there are more women choices for men. But if you travel to let’s say China or Korea. You will probably get lots of attention and feel like a queen.
5- An average looking people in his/her home country travels or moves to a land of unattractive people?
You are an average looking girl in your country, so you immigrate or travel to a country where most people don’t see beautiful girls on the streets. If you are 4 in your country, you will be 7-8 in their eyes.
You will get noticed often since you come from a region where people are way more attractive and healthy looking. This feeling might make you feel better certainly. There are regions in Canada, USA, and Australia where it is tough to see a person you are attracted especially if you are a picky person.
If you are having difficulties finding love and happiness, my advice is to travel or move to different part of the country or an entirely different state to try and increase your luck. Don’t forget there is a light at the end of the tunnel. There are always people who are out there that will like and love you. Stay positive!
Matt M. Eccles is the founder of Vitality and Happiness Blog. He is a philosopher, psychology enthusiast, wellness and digestion expert, author, and world traveler who is passionate about helping others reach and experience optimum health, true happiness, and increased vitality. The purpose of this website is to motivate and inspire people to handle life’s challenges. Uplift and encourage you to succeed in life and be happy and healthy, increase life quality, and become the best version of yourself.